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Charismatic Communicator: Self-test

It is actually not so difficult to check whether you, at this point in time, are already a Charismatic Person or otherwise. Jusk yourself the following questions and make sure that your answers are genuine and sincere:

i) Which one would you do first when you meet a new friend?

a. You introduce yourself first and tell him your background.

b. You ask his/her name and background.

ii) If you are asked to find a partner and exchange your high school experiences with him/her in 2 minutes, which one of the following categories would you be:

a. You’ll do most of the talking and storytelling.

b. You’d love to listen to his/her stories and ask him/her questions so you can know more about him/her.

iii) Which one do you prefer more?

a. Receiving presents and smile.

b. Giving presents and see the smile on his/her face.

iv) Which of the following statement below do you agree to more?

a. Sorry and thank you are precious words that cannot be easily uttered to anyone anytime.

b. Sorry and thank you are the best words to be said at all times.

v) If you had to work in a team, which method would you take to complete the task at hand?

a. Do it alone and then present to them

b. Discuss, collect inputs from your team members and do it together with them.

If your answers are mostly (b), great, you already possess the qualities of a Charismatic Person. Polish up and you will certainly be an Influential Communicator and Public Speaker.

Charismatic Communicator: How To Develop

Rasulullah s.a.w is undeniably the Most Charismatic Person the world has ever witnessed. His companions used to describe him as someone who never failed to acknowledge and appreciate each and every one of his audience who attended his talks. In fact, he sometimes extends his view to see those sitting behind poles to pay them respect and acknowledgement.

To be a Charismatic Person, we should develop the three attitudes Imentioned earlier. If you observe every Charismatic Person, you will surely find the three attitudes embedded in them. Start developing the three attitudes from now.

Some suggestions you can follow to develop your Charisma:

1. In a conversation with anyone, reduce using I, me, my and mine. Instead, use as many you, your, they, them, we and our as possible. For instance:

- What is your name? (instead of my name is…)

- How are you? (instead of I am not feeling well..)

- How was your trip? (instead of I had a very great travelling experience..)

- Has your dad recovered? (instead of my dad is now in hospital..)

2. Find at least one person to help every day. The more you give, the more you will get. What goes around comes around. If you treat your friend to lunch today, someone else will invite you for fine dining tomorrow. Even if no one does that to you, at the very least, you would have gained respect from people.

3. Say thank you out loud. I’m sorry and thank you. These two phrases are powerful tools that could flip people’s feelings and emotions from negative to positive. In addition, the effect of these two phrases would surely multiply if they are uttered out loud.

By,

Faridzul Nasaruddin

Professional Trainer & Leadership Coach

Certified Professional Image Consultant

E-mail: faridzul.nasaruddin@gmail.com | FB: Faridzul Nasaruddin

BeeTalk best ke ?

Assalamualaikum semua , hai , kita kembali semula dengan entry yg bertajuk BeeTalk best ke ?

Kita pun baru je install BeeTalk tu semalam , tapi dah selongkar dan buat research semua , hah, semangat betul sampai nak buat research bagai kan ? haha , well you know me kalau dah tak de benda nak buat , research la benda yg patut ;) Ramai kawan bertanya , "BeeTalk ni macam mana ye Sorfiena ?" "Best ke ?" "Apa je ?" "Haram jadah aku tak faham nate ni" "Apa benda whisper whisper bagai ni?" "Aku tak reti la moment dia ni" "Voice moment weii, gempak" hahaha, dan macam macam lagi. Dia tanya kita macam kita ni je yg buat BeeTalk tu -.- sabar je la . Baca dengan lebih lanjut mengenai sedikit tentang BeeTalk kayy , kalau ada salah silap sila tegur dan komen di ruangan komen :) 

We’ve looked at Feifei from China and Candidly from India before. Now meet BeeTalk from Thailand.

Thailand first, then Singapore and Malaysia. 

The company is aware how Line app dominates the Thai market. But the team believes that being based in Thailand helps it respond much faster to what the market wants. 

BeeTalk will focus on Thailand, but it’s also going after users in Singapore and Malaysia (and so the app supports English and Chinese, as well as Thai). Although those markets are smaller, the company claims it has already seen a positive response there. It has also seen some traction in Laos. In the future, BeeTalk also looks to expand to Vietnam and Indonesia.

BeeTalk’s stickers are designed by local artists. The company is not looking to partner with brands yet, which is something we’ve seen Line and KakaoTalk do with their own virtual stickers.

Ini BeeTalk punya apa nak cakap eh , hmmm, yg ada kat BeeTalk la kiranya :D

Free Calls

Enjoy unlimited talk time with your family and friends

Free Voice & 

Text Message

Chat with voice or text messages conveniently

Whisper

Send secret messages that magically disappear afterwards

Public Account

Keep up with news updates and special benefits

Buzz

Share status to friends in voice, text or photos

Look Around

Check out people nearby and add them as friends

Stickers

night entry

Assalamualaikum wbt.

lama juga admin tak update blogkan ? korang pun dah tak kenal admin kan ? sedih  untuk entry kali ni , kita guna panggilan opi kay , sbb kat uitm kawan-kawan panggil oppie . atau di instagram di kenali sebagai oppiependragon . 

Entry kali ni , opi nak ceritakan pasal uitm opi . dah masuk 2 sem dah opi di uitm ni . alhamdulillah sangat sebab dapat masuk uitm dan belajar di uitm melaka . pengalaman tu banyak sangat yg dah tercipta di sini . yes . opi update entry ni semasa opi di uitm . jumaat 11 april last paper final dan last opi di melaka . hehe, dah lama tidak pulang ke rumah . rindu sangat dengan family di rumah sana . cakap macam duduk sabah dan sarawak je kan sampai nak kena beli tiket flight mahal . padahal duduk selangor je -- tapi jarang balik , busy assignment la katakan :) 

setiap hari opi nak tidur , opi mesti fikir. kat uitm dah biasa tidur sorang sorang atas katil , keluar jln di sekitar uitm dgn kawan-kawan . selalu keluar malam lepak tepi tasik tun fatimah or makan depan uitm kat bersaudara or buat kerja kat xtreme sampai 4 5 pagi baru masuk uitm . hmm , mcm mcm aku fikir bila beberapa hari je lagi aku nak tinggalkan uitm . kat sini ada polis bantuan yg jaga uitm . so aku nak pergi mana mana aku tak takut dalam uitm . pencuri ke perompak ke , perogol ke , aku tak takut sangat sbb aku ada ramai kenalan kat uitm so bila mereka nampak aku , mereka akan jaga aku , bila kena kacau , kawan ada lindungkan aku , selalu aku mesti jalan dengan kawan rapat aku sbb aku seorang yg takut pada orang ramai dan takut pada dunia luar . aku terlalu takut . bila dekat rumah , lain keadaannya , tidak seperti uitm , itu yang merunsingkan aku sekarang ni , setiap kali nak tidur, mesti terfikirkan masalah ini . Di rumah , aku akan tidur dengan adik beradik ku , tak ada privisi langsung, hahahaha. lepas tu aku suka tidur kat ruang tamu sorang sorang, tapi mama tak kasi sbb takut kena kacau or ada org masuk rumah dia jadikan kita sebagai umpan. hmmmm, yes , kawasan perumahan opi sangat gelap dan sunyi . tak ramai org lalu . rumah atas bukit -- selalu gak kat rumah tu kena 'kacau' tapi rumah aku kot , aku pulak yg rasa takut. apa ni -- tak tenang langsung nak kemana-mana . nak keluar kena berteman walaupun nak pergi jogging di kawasan perumahan. takut ada perompak, perogol . hmmm , see tak betapa tak tenang aku nak tidur. dah terbiasa dengan kehidupan di uitm yang terjaga dan teratur , bila nak balik rumah rasa takut, kesian kat family aku kat sana , adik adik aku . nak je aku ajak mereka tinggal dengan aku kat kolej ni. hahaha. suka hati je kan nak buat macam rumah sendiri . haha .nak cakap kat rumah je kena kacau kat uitm tak kena kacau tipu la kan . mestila pernah kena kacau. nak cerita pasal kena kacau memang panjangla. dari sem 1 lagi aku dah kena, siap ada yg ikut balik rumah. waaaa , seram dow. sebab tu aku selalu sakit . hmmm . sampai sekarang aku selalu sakit dan sakit . sampai assignment pun tak siap , siap last minit . aku dah mengadu kat lecterer aku pasal ni , dan dia suruh balik rumah nanti pergi hospital cek , tak pun pergi berubah , jangan sampai jadi teruk. thats why i sayang semua lecterer i kat uitm :) 

selalu kalau opi tidur lambat sbb buat aassignment kalau ada assignment kalau tak tengok movie or online di laman sosial twitter , facebook, wechat and instagram  aku lebih rela duduk dalam bilik buat kerja . aku terlalu takut untuk berjumpa orang ramai . bila aku di tengahtengah org ramai, aku jadi tak tentu arah dan rasa nak pitam pun ada --

rasanya , itu je opi nak share harini , tak tahu nak buat apa , update blog je la yg mampu , nak tgk movie semua movie dah terdelete. tinggal drama korea je. tadi layan drama korea "Bachelor's Vegetable Store" 

bila baca tajuk entry semula rasa macam tak ada kena mengena dengan isi entry . haha. lantak la , redah je . gambar tak ada sebab malas nak masukkan gambar :P

have a nice day people . goodluck for final exam and result akan diumumkan pada 9-5-14 :) GOODLUCK friends 

lots of love, 

oppiependragon | 2.06 AM | TSJ 23**

'Fast & Furious' star Paul Walker dies in car crash

The 40-year-old actor has passed away in a fiery car accident in California.

Paul Walker, the star of the highly successful franchise ‘Fast & Furious’, has been killed in a car accident in California.

According to reports, the 40-year-old actor was riding in a Porsche that lost control and crashed in Santa Clarita, north of Los Angeles. The car hit a post or a tree before busting into flames, killing both passengers in the vehicle.

A past by the actor’s team on Facebook stated: “It is with a truly heavy heart that we must confirm that Paul Walker passed away today in a tragic car accident while attending a charity event for his organization Reach Out Worldwide. He was a passenger in a friend's car, in which both lost their lives. We appreciate your patience as we too are stunned and saddened beyond belief by this news. Thank you for keeping his family and friends in your prayers during this very difficult time. We will do our best to keep you apprised on where to send condolences. - ‪#‎TeamPW”

Deputy Heischuber of Santa Clarita Valley Sheriff’s Station told PEOPLE that there is still “an ongoing investigation” and “there are deputies on the scene now”. He also stated: “Solo car crash occurred about 3:30 p.m. in the city of Santa Clarita, on the outskirts of Valencia. A 911 call came in from a bystander." 

Paul Walker was currently filming the seventh ‘Fast & Furious’ film.